Dont hold on too Tight!!

After a long time i happen to be in a good mood today... things haven't been going my way for quite some time and I've been acting weirdly because of all that but finally sorted out some of the stuff... so I'm finally back on great terms with my best friend after having this whole possessive phase where i ended up realizing that i was being unreasonable and trying to hold on to her too tight!!... poor girl!!... feel bad about it now but i guess that isn't going to happen anymore... the more you try to hold on to something the sooner you end up losing it... its like a pool of water in your hand... the tighter you clench your fist, the more water flows out... i guess we've all heard this one... "If you love someone, set them free... if they come back, they are yours... if they don't, they never were." but i guess most of us use the modified version... (i know i sometimes do!!).. "If you love someone, put a chain around their neck lest they'll flee." and that's how we end up pushing them farther away from us... its just about trying too hard and exactly the opposite happening... all we do is end up choking the other person and hampering their space... i guess this happens with all relationships... friends, lovers, parents... and the worst part is we don't realize what we are doing... and by the time we do realize, its often too late!!... I'm just glad that i realized it all in good time!!!...


this one's for you because i know i was wrong and even though i know you're never going to read this i just wanted to say sorry for any hurt that i caused... i know u didn't ask for any explanations but i just hope that in your heart you know it was unintentional... you know i love you and care about you but its just that sometimes i tend to act stupid and hurt you even though i don't mean to... i know you're always there to support me and correct me and thanks for always being there for me... you're the best friend anyone can ever ask for... i love you sweety...